Disenchanted With The Bandage Approach

Disenchanted With The Bandage Approach

Working in modern day medicine, I have become disenchanted with the way chronic and complicated cases are handled. As a woman working on her healing journey with PCOS, I feel like there is a better way. 


There are a lot of things I have seen, but even with my working knowledge, I have even been treated in a similar way. 


Have you ever been told to take a medication just because of your diagnosis? 


I know I have! I was told to get back onto birth control. 


I had regular cycles. I was told that because I had PCOS, it would be a good idea to get back on them. 


This was 1 year post pregnancy and we were planning to have more children at that time. I was not educated on why it would be important, and my lab results did not show a need for it.


Maybe you have had this one happen to you too...my physician wanted to up a medication strength. 


It was based on my weight...again post pregnancy. I had labs taken, but at no point were the labs considered in the decision making process. Had the lab results reflected the need for this, I would have complied. 


To me, this sounds like textbook protocols. Last time I checked...which I can attest to as something that happens with orthopedic injuries...we are all made different. There is not one cookie cutter approach that works on all people. 


After receiving my lab results, I knew I had to start doing my own homework on my PCOS! 


Here are some more thoughts on the Bandage Approach…


My PCOS was not just an inherited condition I would have to live with for the rest of my life. I did not have to allow it to progress and become worse over time. 


I did not need to be on these masking agents just to keep my symptoms at bay. 


It was something that I could work on. I could make improvements by better understanding my body, what supports it, what hinders it, and how to get it to and beyond the wellness line. 


Thereby improving my quality of life and becoming less symptomatic or even asymptomatic (being asymptomatic does not mean I am healed...I can go right back into the condition by going back to my old lifestyle). 


Health is something that I hold a great value in. Something that we all deserve. It is something that many of us do not realize we can have. 

It is simple to achieve, but it is not necessarily easy. I promise you, the alternate path is well worth taking. Your quality of life is waiting for you!


Allow me the opportunity to support you along the way. Here is a way to grab my free guide on how I Thrive with PCOS. 


You are in the driver’s seat and should always be allowed to rip the bandage off when your body truly thrives!


You are worthy, 


PCOS Food Confusion

PCOS Food Confusion

There is so much advice out there am I right?

This person says give up dairy and gluten. The next says Keto. Another says eat Paleo. Go low carb. Or, kick all of those ideas to the curb and Intuitively Eat. Oh and do not forget to Intermittent Fast while doing all of this!

Which one do you do? Which one will work? Well the answer is they all work, but which one will work best for you. That is the key! 

What worked for Sussie may not work for Samantha. We all have different types of PCOS, mental relationships with food, and dietary limitations.

This is why I am actually going to throw another idea into the ring of suggestions. Why am I doing this to you? Because it has been the most helpful tool in figuring out how to clean up the way my family eats and it helped me find foods that do not serve my body. 

See if I were to do traditional Keto, my body would be in a world of hurt! I would conclude that the bloating and constipation I would experience would be enough reason for me to count that as a failure and quit. 

If I went all Paleo, I would miss out on great fiber sources from legumes. I love green beans cooked in bacon you all, so that would be tough for me. Plus I make fantastic black bean brownies!

While I do believe there is something to the intuitive eating, just because I am craving that lasagna in front of me does not mean I should eat it because I am feeling it. I know my body does not do well with both gluten and dairy. 

I do not believe followers of this style are saying eat things that do not serve you. They are just trying to rebuild a positive relationship with food. I am always down for that. 

I just know for me, I have to have ground rules. For me, those Cheetos and Soda will never be on the menu! However, if I eat a couple of potato chips, I will not hate myself later.

Lastly, I am a fan of intermittent fasting. Though I know it is not for everyone. 

I always suggest to people to take baby steps. Also if your body is telling you to eat that breakfast or dinner (depending on when you start and end your time off from eating), then you should probably eat at least something. 

So why Whole 30? This video will break it down for you.

Does this sound like something you would be interested in? Would you like to test this out? 

I am doing a trial run of Whole 30 which will be turned into a bigger challenge in August. Let’s test the waters together and see if this is doable for you. 

Let's connect and I will send you a guide with reasons why Whole 30 is a critical tool to your PCOS journey. 

Most importantly, I will also get you hooked up with a group to help support you through this process. Support is important when making potential lifestyle shifts.

Are you in? 


Underrated Game Changer Supplement

Underrated Game Changer Supplement

Supplements are something that I struggle to trust. There is a good reason for that which I will share at another time. On the evolution of my thriving journey with PCOS, I have come to really appreciate them. 

Today’s supplement tale is one of Magnesium. 

Magnesium is really not that hard to come by. It is in many foods like almonds, avocados, cashews, and spinach. All things that I eat and love to eat. So I never gave adding it much thought until I came across something on chocolate cravings. 

See I used to crave chocolate so much. Like going crazy cravings...as in if I would eat even the sources above, the craving still was not taken care of. This my friends is a sign of deficiency at its lowest of lows.

After finding that information and reading Lara Briden’s recommendation for 300 mg of magnesium daily, I started to look into my resources for just the right supplement. The source of any supplement is very important. 

What I grabbed, I honestly thought I would never use. Then I thought...let’s give it a shot. 

The reason why I grabbed what I did:

  1. It is not a pill...I take enough of those thanks

  2. It is infused with cinnamon as well as a few other things

The cinnamon was important because if you are the insulin resistance type of PCOS, cinnamon has been linked in many studies to help with this. 

I figured I was getting a two for one special. 

What I have noticed in the last two months is my cravings by far more under control than they have ever been. 

I still have the urge to allow emotions to trigger a “need” to eat, but I am finding it easier to work through those times more so than before.

I was having some symptoms that are signs of insulin resistance in progression. While a change in the way I eat plays a big role in that regression, I began to feel like I took it to the next level.

I am excited to keep this in my daily protocol and see what benefits I continue to see over time. We are in a long term game here folks. Short term goals are great, but I am all about the bigger picture.

With that said, I really want to give credit to what I have done before adding any of my supplements. I find it so frustrating that we have become a culture of the quick fix and magic source. 

Whether what you are getting is from a pharmacy or from your trusted supplement source, there are lifestyle items that are necessary as part of this journey. 

I honestly feel that had I not worked on these things first, my body would not be in a place to receive the benefits from this new added supplement as well as the others I use.

I know no one wants to hear this. What I am talking about requires time, effort, and most of all changes. I have got to tell you...YOU are worth it! Redefining life on your terms that serve your health. You are the gatekeeper. 

My guide talks about the 3 foundational pieces that I dove into to go from declining to thriving. Grab it, read it, and lock arms. You are one choice away from the path to thriving. 

Looking forward to Thriving together, 


What does "Lifestyle Change" Mean To You?

What does "Lifestyle Change" Mean To You?

In many health circles, the term lifestyle has become popular. 

Think about it, some of us have more social lifestyles while others have more secluded lifestyles. 

Some of us have lifestyles that are all about instant gratification while others prefer to live life more simply with a bit more effort. 

All of these are some great examples, but when we talk about changing the way people eat, using the term lifestyle seems to have a negative feeling behind it. 

I believe that is because we all know what this means...the things we have to give up! No one wants to give up things we enjoy...am I right?!

However, I am a big fan of the term lifestyle and in fact commonly refer back to making lifestyle changes often.

For me, at least, this term feels better than using words like diet...would you agree? 

It feels like an intentional action. Ones that serve me, my health, and those around me. A new approach to doing things.

I never feel like I am lacking, it feels like redefining and recreating.

Is it simple? In theory, yes. Are they always easy? Not always as many of my lifestyle changes are not always convenient. 

What I do know is that I feel better with these lifestyle changes. They serve my health in a way that the things I no longer utilize ever did. 

It is rare that I miss any of those things. Though I do have a moment of weakness. 

How I react to this steps back is my perception and I will use them as learning opportunities rather than a means to tear myself down. I note how my body feels and come up with a plan to work around my misstep. 

The way I feel about it is my health is worth it. 

A lifestyle is more than a way of living, it is a mindset. Once you become determined to make important shifts for your health, you will only notice the gains you have made versus what you give up. 

So tell me, what do you think about the phrase lifestyle change? Is it a negative, or a positive? 

Are you looking into making some important lifestyle changes? Grab my guide on the three I used on my thriving with PCOS journey. Whether you have PCOS, or not, these steps are helping in thriving in health, no matter what health journey you are on. 

Wishing you health with grace and ease, 


Diagnosed with PCOS...Now What?

Diagnosed with PCOS...Now What?

Welcome to a Cysterhood of women with what is called PCOS or Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. It is a club you may not want to belong to. None of us do, but the community is supportive. So let’s go on this journey together, shall we? 

You most likely got asked a series of questions about your symptoms like:

  • What weight changes have you had?

  • What are your cycles like? 

  • (If you have tried to get pregnant) are you struggling with getting pregnant? 

  • Any skin changes? 

  • Changes to the way your hair grows or where it grows?  

Then comes the lab work. Your physician looks at your hormones and blood sugar levels. 

Last, but not least (nor required), a pelvic CT scan. This will allow the physician to see how cystic your ovaries are or may not be. While having cysts is normal, they are looking at the size of the cysts as well as an abundance or lack of cysts. This test alone is not the best indicator as the cysts will change from cycle to cycle. 

Then comes the plan. There are 3 usual medication go to's: 

  • Birth control: This is to help regulate your cycle if it is irregular. 

  • Metformin: This one helps keep you insulin in check as your ovaries are greatly affected by insulin. 

  • Spironolactone: This medication is intended to help your skin clear up, reduce hair loss, and reduce your male pattern hair growth. 

You may have also gotten a referral to an Endocrinologist since the medicine they practice is more focused on hormones and their relationships with each other. This is a very complex area of medicine and having a specialist can be helpful, but not always necessary as your OB/GYN or Primary Care Physician may also understand this condition well. 

These are the basic first steps that many of us begin our journeys on. 

However, did your doctor suggest any lifestyle changes? They may have asked you if you were interested in meeting with a dietitian or nutritionist. They may have told you to make sure you work out 3 to 5 times a week. All great suggestions. 

Which of these above are you utilizing? We all have varying starts to our journey, so help your fellow Cysters out down below. 

However, I have found there is more to PCOS than just bandaging the symptoms. There are more lifestyle changes than just losing weight. 

In fact, there is more than just restricting calories and burning them off to the proper weight for PCOS women.

PCOS is complex. The steps to get you down the path of recovery are more than what you will ever find in a pill. 

If you are ready to move beyond the basic steps to PCOS care, then you are ready for my guide. Let’s lock arms and get you down a path of real healing and recovery. PCOS does not have to define you. 

Let Real Healing Begin,